This week has been one where the stories in the news have brought feelings of nostalgia, anger and sadness. We had the funeral of Baroness Thatcher. When me and RC were growing up, this was the most hated figure by the youth and working class in our country. When we were at school the boys all knew which apprenticeships they would take up at sixteen. They were the future engineers, mechanics, plumbers, electricians. Overnight apprenticeships disappeared and college courses for which you had to pay came into force. The earn as you learn way to progress into a trade became pay to learn if you can. For those of us who now had left school with no job lined up(unemployment was very high) we were forced onto work schemes. When RC left school 3yrs before me these were placements in non profit organisations, but by the time I had left this had been expanded to all businesses. This meant a business could take on a 16yr old and make them do a full weeks work with no obligation to train them and the best bit was it was free. The government gave you £25 a week, you were contracted to this placement for 6 months, you had to find travel costs out of this too. If you refused, you could not claim unemployment benefit. You worked a full 42 hour week which made it impossible to look for a real job, as everywhere was shut by the time you finished for the day. Some kids were treated like slave labourers, they were mistreated, bullied and given dirty and dangerous tasks with no health and safety risk assessments.
As a sixteen year old I was sent to a day centre for the elderly and mentally disturbed, during my six months I was left with deceased clients at their homes to wait for police and doctors, told to assist in laying out bodies, attacked by a mental patient who had a knife, sexually harassed by older workers and clients at the centre and treated like a servant by the manager. I was sent out on the ambulance with Peter, to pick up clients from their homes, Peter was doing community service for tax evasion, running houses of ill repute and taking money with menaces. He came to work in a chauffeur driven Rolls Royce, I told my dad who my ambulance partner was and he was worried because Peter was a well known criminal who was known to be extremely violent if crossed. Years later he shot his wife and her friend when she tried to leave him. There would be a national outcry today if 16yr olds were put at risk like this.
I hated my time there and found a job as a nanny as soon as my time was up. A lot of kids from school didn't find work for a long time, if at all, the local dockyard closed and there were even more unemployed. All these young guys from school who had thought they would have jobs and trades like their dads were now hanging around the town centre sniffing glue or sitting at home doing nothing.
When I moved to the coast at seventeen for a job in a computer parts factory I was the only person with a job amongst a large number of friends. When I have watched tribute programmes to Mrs.Thatcher this week I don't recognise the country as they described it on television. I think if you were above a certain income then life was very profitable and you must have been either disinterested or unaware of what the rest of the country was going through. My father kept a bottle of whiskey for nearly thirty years waiting for Thatcher to die. The year before he died he decided it was wrong to celebrate someone's death and gave it away.
I cannot believe that after all the country went through, that the government were surprised there was resentment when it was announced that she would get a state funeral, paid for by the people. We have had other politicians and prime ministers who have achieved great things and do not get this treatment. I think the worst thing is that the whole funeral was planned by Mrs. Thatcher when she was alive. She expected a state funeral, pomp and ceremony fit for royalty and she secured a promise that her wishes would be carried out many years ago. It is wrong that at a time when we are in recession, when payments to disabled are being cut, medical treatments are being withheld because of lack of funds, families are struggling to meet the cost of burying their relatives that an extremely rich family can have £10 million pounds of tax payers money to fund an egotistical display of sheer class arrogance.
And you didn't even mention the way people on TV are changing history and saying she did all sorts of stuff that she didn't and vice-versa... I mean, I just found out that it wasn't really her that destroyed our coal industry!
ReplyDeleteThat is disgusting exploitation. I knew she was bad news but reading your blog others from friends in the UK it just gets worse. 10 million pounds! Are you serious?!
ReplyDeleteThe fact that she felt that she deserved a state funeral, putting herself on the same level as Sir Winston Churchill, is what annoys most people. This funeral was planned for many years by Mrs Thatcher, securing agreements from subsequent governments that her wishes would be carried out. I suppose it was the only way she could be assured to get what she wanted, because left to the peoples vote, this funeral would never have been executed on this scale.
DeleteI can't imagine being forced to work in situations such as you've described... at any age, much less as a teenager! That is horrible!
ReplyDeleteI look back now and think what a bunch of passive sheep the population must have been at that time. I cannot imagine a government getting away with this now. Work placements have been tried that are similar but they have taken the government to court and the schemes have been deemed unlawful.
DeleteWith all of the media hype over here, I was curious to hear how both of you felt about her passing. You tell a much different story than the news outlets are sharing with the world. You have a better perspective on things. You lived the time, the experience. It is sad how history portrays some people based upon their so-called achievements.
ReplyDeleteThe media coverage was quite a lesson in how to change history. We were told that even though Thatcher called Mandela a terrorist, she didn't mean it and actually was instrumental in his release. She didn't close any mines, they closed themselves. Privatising the countries assets for a fraction of their worth was a good thing because people rich enough to buy the shares made a fortune. Selling off large stocks of social housing that was meant to be for people who could not afford a mortgage is not the reason why there is now a shortage of affordable housing. There was no mention of the record number of unemployed at the time. The problem was that the woman lacked empathy, she had goals and was uninterested in how they affected the people.
DeleteI would have been outraged too to find out she was getting a state funeral. I find it extremely frustrating how some things our government does appears to be so obviously wrong, and yet they can explain away the absurdity. Seems like yours is doing a fine job of it as well.
ReplyDeleteYou have had quite a life... I can't imagine how difficult it must have been to overcome all that hardship. I'm guessing that's the reason you appreciate your life and family so much now. And it'll make finally getting away on a honeymoon that much sweeter!
It's funny how you do not realise sometimes that your life is harder than others because you are always aware of someone worse off than yourself. A few years ago a friend of mine was telling me about some small problems in her life that she had blown out of all proportion. I found this very irritating until I realised that she had never experienced any real hardship in life and had never had to deal with problems, so the smallest thing, was her biggest problem. I envied her,she still had her parents and even grandparents, although they were in their nineties. Life had been plain and ordinary for her, I wanted that so much. Then when she became ill, she couldn't comprehend it, almost in denial, she didn't take the treatments because she didn't think they applied to her.She still railed about the little things in life, glazing over the fact that her cancer was terminal. She was so unprepared for tragedy in her life that she just didn't acknowledge it. She died so quickly that I sometimes wonder if she is still out there unable to understand what has happened. I like to think that all the hardship that you face in life, prepares you for the next bad thing that comes along and helps you deal with and overcome it. Also I agree that it helps you to appreciate the good things in life so much more.
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